Romantic Escapes in the US
For Valentine’s Day—or Any Time You Can Sneak Away Together
I’ve never been a huge Valentine’s Day celebrator, but I do love a romantic escape and an adults-only hotel. This year, I’ll be in Miami, about to embark on a cruise with my husband while my kids visit their big brother and grandparents. But for those looking to plan a romantic getaway, there are countless incredible options across the U.S.
Couples looking for a dreamy escape can discover hidden gems in every region. Whether it’s cozying up by the fire in a charming New England inn, unwinding at a world-class spa, or sipping wine in a picturesque vineyard, there’s a perfect spot for everyone. Mountain lodges in the Blue Ridge Mountains offer scenic hikes and wildlife spotting, while the Southwest’s desert landscapes provide a mix of adventure and tranquility. The West Coast
Any time of year is ideal to plan a milestone celebration or a last-minute getaway. This guide will help you navigate where to stay and what to do (so everything feels tailor-made for two).
Need to Know
Creating a seamless and stress-free romantic getaway requires planning ahead. Confirm seasonal amenities, book spa treatments in advance, and if you’re seeking an adults-only experience, double-check hotel policies. If driving, consider weather conditions and terrain when selecting your rental car.
Airports
Northeast: Accessible via Boston (BOS), Albany (ALB), and NYC’s three airports (JFK, LGA, EWR).
Southeast: Best reached from Atlanta (ATL), Asheville (AVL), and Nashville (BNA).
Southwest: Fly into Phoenix (PHX) or Albuquerque (ABQ).
West Coast: Major gateways include Los Angeles (LAX) and San Francisco (SFO), with regional airports like Monterey (MRY).
Transportation
Northeast: For scenic views, consider Amtrak to connect with charming destinations like Hudson Valley, the Berkshires and Upstate New York. Renting a car is also ideal to explore quaint towns and the countryside.
Southeast: This area’s mountains and charming towns are best explored by car. Consider renting a car to get around, but private shuttles and ride-share services are also available.
Southwest: The region’s scenic highways and landscapes are best seen by driving — remember a 4x4 or SUV is best for more remote locations. There are also plenty of private transfers available from the airports to resorts.
West Coast: The dramatic coastline and desert regions are best explored by car. Private transportation is also available, especially for day trips to wine regions and smaller coastal towns.
Best Time to Visit
Northeast: Winter is perfect for cozy escapes; spring and summer offer hiking and vineyard tours; fall brings stunning foliage.
Southeast: Mild winters, blooming landscapes in spring, warm summers for outdoor dining, and crisp autumn air.
Southwest: Desert landscapes are best explored in spring and fall; summers are ideal for resort stays with pools.
West Coast: Great year-round, with spring blooms, summer beach days, and fewer crowds in fall.
Ideal Length of Stay
A 2-5 night getaway is perfect for reconnecting, whether it’s a quick weekend escape or a longer, leisurely retreat.
Where to Stay
Northeast
The Northeast is a romantic haven filled with charming villages and cozy cafés. It’s perfect for seasonal experiences like apple-picking in fall or sleigh rides in winter. If you love a mix of outdoor adventures and cozy charm, you will love this region.
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The Point (Adirondacks, NY): Exclusive, adults-only retreat with just 11 rooms on Saranac Lake, featuring black-tie dinners and champagne picnics.
Winvian Farm (Litchfield, CT): A secluded luxury retreat with uniquely themed cottages, such as a Treehouse and a Helicopter Cottage. Fora Perks include a $100 food & beverage credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Postcard Cabins (Catskills, NY): Modern, minimalist cabins with floor-to-ceiling windows and complimentary s’mores kits.
Southeast
The Southeast offers a romantic blend of natural beauty and Southern charm. Seasonal markets and Lowcountry cuisine are just a few highlights you can enjoy any time of year. Anyone looking for a warm, cozy, inviting escape will find something to love here.
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The Dunlin, Auberge Resorts Collection (SC): A dreamy riverside retreat in the Lowcountry, offering waterfront cottages and a range of activities. Fora Reserve perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Southall Farm & Inn (Franklin, TN): A rustic-luxury retreat with private terraces, soaking tubs, and orchard views. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
High Hampton Resort (NC): A historic mountain resort with charming cottages and lodge rooms, plus all-inclusive dining. Pricing includes daily breakfast and dinner, with additional activities and spa treatments available.
Southwest
The Southwest combines dramatic landscapes and cultural richness. Art-gallery-lined streets in Santa Fe and hiking trails through Sedona’s red rocks are two of the region’s highlights. This area in general is perfect for couples wanting a blend of relaxation and outdoorsy adventures.
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Castle Hot Springs (AZ): A secluded, adults-only retreat with private sky-view bungalows and natural hot springs. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
The Inn of the Five Graces (Santa Fe, NM): A boutique hotel with lavish suites and easy access to Santa Fe’s art scene. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
L’Auberge de Sedona (AZ): A luxury retreat with private creekside cottages, spa treatments, and breathtaking red rock views. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
West Coast
The West Coast provides a range of luxurious experiences alongside rugged natural attractions. Taking a walk along the beach in Santa Barbara or driving on the iconic Pacific Coast Highway are just two ideas for couples to enjoy. The region is the perfect backdrop for romance.
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San Ysidro Ranch (Santa Barbara, CA): An ultra-luxurious escape with private hot tubs, outdoor rain showers, and stone fireplaces. Fora Perks include a $100 hotel credit, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Thompson Palm Springs (CA): A chic, mid-century modern retreat with mountain views and proximity to downtown restaurants and galleries. Fora’s Hyatt Privé partner perks include a hotel credit, welcome amenity, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Alila Ventana Big Sur: This secluded cliffside retreat (one of our favorite hotels for Cuffing Season) is an adults-only haven surrounded by redwoods overlooking the Pacific Ocean. With spacious suites and glamping tents, along with a renowned spa, this one-of-a-kind escape combines natural beauty with elegant luxury. Fora’s Hyatt Privé partner perks include a hotel credit, welcome amenity, daily breakfast, an upgrade and extended check-in/out whenever possible.
Activities
Book experiences in advance to ensure availability, but leave room in your itinerary for relaxation and spur-of-the-moment activities.
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Northeast
Fireside relaxation: Unwind by the fire in a cozy Postcard Cabin with a bottle of wine and s’mores.
Rural escape: Tour Vermont’s snowy scenery, stopping in at quaint cafes and antiques shops.
Litchfield hills: Discover the hills of Litchfield near Winvian Farm with a winter stroll or snowshoeing adventure.
Village vibes: Browse art galleries and boutique shops while strolling through Upstate New York’s villages, like Hudson or Saratoga Springs.
Sip & savor: Enjoy a visit to a local vineyard or distillery for a private tasting.
Ice skating: Sip some mulled cider or hot chocolate before ice skating at a small-town rink or frozen pond.
Southeast
Historic charm: Wander Charleston’s historic cobblestone streets near The Dunlin, lined with pastel-colored homes.
River cruise: Spot wildlife and enjoy the sunset on a boat ride down the Kiawah River.
Nature trek: Tour Southall Farm & Inn’s greenhouse and orchards, stroll its many walking trails, or relax with a picnic.
Blue Ridge Mountains: Drive through the Blue Ridge Mountains near High Hampton Resort for scenic overlooks and hiking trails.
Local gem: Take a stroll through the charming mountain town of Cashiers, North Carolina.
Winery: Visit a vineyard near Franklin, Tennessee for wine tastings and panoramic views.
Southwest
Red Rock: Take in Sedona’s red rock landscape from trails around Cathedral Rock and Devil’s Bridge.
Santa Fe: Explore Santa Fe’s historic plaza and Canyon Road near The Inn of the Five Graces, for art galleries and local markets.
Jeep tour: Wind through rugged terrain on Jeep tour in Sedona at sunset.
Hot air balloon: Watch the sunrise from a hot air balloon over the desert formations in Sedona.
Scenic drive: Venture through the Painted Desert or Monument Valley, taking photos and enjoying the colorful landscape.
West Coast
Botanic gardens: Visit the Santa Barbara Botanic Garden near San Ysidro Ranch for peaceful trails and native plants.
Wineries: Sample local varietals on a wine-tasting tour in the Santa Ynez Valley.
Palm Springs: Enjoy a walk through downtown near the Thompson Palm Springs, including a stop at the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Redwood trails: Hike the Redwood Trails near Alila Ventana Big Sur for ocean vistas surrounded by some of the world’s tallest and largest trees.
Beach: Take in the sunset at Montecito’s Butterfly Beach.
Coastal drive: Cruise the iconic Pacific Coast Highway near Big Sur, and stop for photos at Bixby Bridge.
Final Thoughts
These destinations are ideal for a romantic escape, whether for Valentine’s Day or any other special occasion. If you’re looking for a unique experience, consider adding a private dining experience, a couples' spa treatment, or an adventure like horseback riding or a hot-air balloon ride.
Would you like suggestions for even more destinations or specific experiences? Let me know!